– INTRODUCING AN ALL NEW LIVE ONLINE TRAINING –

Thomas Hübl and Terry Real present

Love, Trauma,
& Healing
Breaking Through Barriers to
Intimacy in Relationships 

A Special LIVE 5-Session Online Training Program

PLUS Receive:

Evolutionary Relationships:
Creating Mystical Partnerships for Healing & Waking Up
7 Recorded Training Modules

Registration for this course is now closed.
Contact our support team with any questions.

“The deepest listening is presence, is consciousness itself. It is space, an open heart, compassion and a deep receiving of someone.”

Thomas Hübl

“Learning to listen relationally, listen with cool heads and clear boundaries, listen with the quietness of the heart and the gentleness of the body, means having a self so developed it can afford to yield.

Terry Real

A Special Invitation from
Thomas Hübl and Terry Real

It is in our intimate relationships that we have the greatest opportunity for transformation. So few couples have the tools to consciously deepen their love, to work with trauma, and to use their close relationship as a crucible for healing…

We want to invite you to explore a 5-session teaching collaboration in which we will explore these topics and more.

This past year has offered many of us the gift of more time with our partners yet in truth, most of us continue to repeat the same patterns from the past.

In fact, often the increased time together creates more unresolved stress and highlights the weaknesses in a relationship…but it doesn’t have to be this way.

In our loving relationships, we all want to see our partners grow and evolve. And we want partners who will do the same for us.

Our relationships can be a crucible for profound inner change.

Our relationships can be the safe place where we release traumas that in the past have blocked intimacy, joy, and peace.

What is needed is a shared framework and mutual understanding of how to support one another.

During Love, Trauma, and Healing you will be able to look over our shoulders as we work  – combining methods from couples psychotherapy and from spiritual practices – with different individuals and couples as they consciously choose to bring their relationships to the next level.

Here is what we’ll be covering together
in the upcoming live program sessions:

  • Session 1: Dealing with Wounds Within Our Significant Relationships
  • Session 2: Healing Our Legacies Part I: Collective Trauma
  • Session 3: Healing Our Legacies Part II: Ancestral & Family Trauma
  • Session 4: Dissolving Fear into Vulnerability & Intimacy
  • Session 5: Growth Practices for Sacred Relationships

Each session will include a teaching and talk by Thomas Hübl and Terry Real. When you take the course you’ll get lifetime access and 5 special bonuses… 

You can find out all the additional details on this page and we look forward to having many of you with us in this all-new training.

In service,

Thomas Hübl and Terry Real

P.S. Remember, this training comes with a risk-free guarantee AND you will also be able to download all the sessions to get lifetime access or in the event you miss any of the live teachings

“We design the world through the relationships that we live, through the relational qualities that we pass on to the next generation. So practicing in our intimate relationships is actually a rewriting of the past. We can heal, we can integrate, and through that we can also change the world.”

- Thomas Hübl

Working with Trauma in Our Intimate Relationships

We often bring wounds and injuries into our relationships that trigger trauma. The previous traumas that we carry are like scars that can prevent us from getting closer to the ones we love and care for in our lives.

Often the defenses and adaptive strategies that have served to protect us in the past keep us from closeness in the present.

When we become conscious of the trauma we hold and how it affects our relationships, then we can work with it as an ally for personal growth rather than something that creates a barrier to intimacy and love.

In fact, a close loving relationship can provide an optimal container for deep healing and transformation. 

Our partners can reflect back to us what they see and hold space for us moment to moment.

There are many types of trauma that we can hold including family of origin and intergenerational trauma, attachment trauma, and collective trauma.

Each type of trauma plays a role in how we relate to our partners and can pull us further apart or bring us closer, depending on how we handle it.

Over 5 Live two-hour sessions, Thomas and Terry will go deep to explore the possibilities of transformation, building frameworks, working with couples live, and also offering practices and tools that you can use in your relationship.

You will come out with a deeper understanding of how trauma affects relationships and how to use it for transformation instead of triggering.

Clearing the Obstacles to Love and Intimacy

Often it is not the lack of desire to be close to another that prevents intimacy, rather it is the obstacles, current or historical, that block connection and love.

Looking at our wounding and trauma, and that of our partner, is a major key for couples who seek deeply fulfilling and extraordinary relationships.

It is in our early relationships that trauma occurs.

And it is through our current relationships that we have an opportunity to heal.

We can move from repetition of the same old patterns to transformation, with each partner evolving inside the relationship.

This is the first time this course has been offered and here is a sample of topics we will work with in our sessions together:

  • How to shift from individual consciousness to relational consciousness. Moving from a 2-dimensional into 3-dimensional embodied consciousness that allows witnessing
  • How to stay open when your early wounds are brought to the surface, rather than becoming defensive
  • What it means to feel the trauma of your partner in your body and how to work with it together
  • How our body stores fear in the nervous system and what this means in relationships
  • The importance of co-regulation as a tool with our partner
  • What it means to transform our legacies in relationship and the different aspects we face when we choose to do the work

Thomas and Terry will also be working with individuals and couples live to demonstrate the work in action and each session will move in the direction that will best serve the group.

Throughout the sessions you will receive a new relational map, tools, and practices that you can bring into your work and significant partnerships.

  • How the present situation relates to former wounding
  • Looking at specific and related wounds
  • Utilizing group-synchronized work for healing
  • Creating a safe we-space and opening a resonant field as a container for deeper work

What’s Inside the Love, Trauma, and Healing Program

Here’s what we’ll be covering in our 5 live sessions together:

LIVE Session 1: Dealing with Wounds in our Significant Relationships

In this session some of the topics that we will explore together include:

  • How to deal with wounds and injuries in relationship
  • How to resolve the outward expressions (affairs, aggression)
  • How the present situation relates to former wounding.
  • Looking at specific and relatee wounds such as marital and family of origin
  • Understanding the awareness and repair process

LIVE Session 2: Healing Our Legacies: Collective Trauma in Relationships

In this session some of the topics that we will explore together include:

  • What it means to transform ourselves in relationship to heal our legacy
  • How we are born into a field of Collective Trauma
  • Utilizing group synchronize work for healing
  • Creating a safe we-space and opening a resonate field as a container for deeper work
  • How collective trauma gets activated inside relationships

LIVE Session 3: Healing Our Legacies Part II: Ancestral and Inter-generational Trauma in Relationships

In this session some of the topics that we will explore together include:

  • How generations replay all types of trauma such as disempowerment, sexual trauma and gender violence
  • How to reverse and stop the chain
  • How culture is transmitted through families
  • Becoming aware of standard escape routes

LIVE Session 4: Dissolving Fear into Vulnerability and Intimacy

In this session some of the topics that we will explore together include:

  • How co-regulation works in relationships to either open or close the body and nervous system
  • Recognizing how we go numb because of latent fear
  • Overcoming the fear of aggression and conflict
  • How attachment model and individuation loop takes us back to 2D and ‘Othering’
  • Shifting from ‘Me’ to ‘You’ consciousness to access a different level of wisdom that is inclusive and relational

LIVE Session 5: Growth Practices for Sacred Relationships

In this session some of the topics that we will explore together include:

  • How to practically move from repetition to transformation
  • How to change negative relational patterns
  • Using our relationships for healing, growth and spiritual work
  • Accessing the evolutionary relationship
  • The ‘Resolution Wheel’

“”Through the mechanism of carried shame and carried feelings, the unresolved pain of previous generations operates in families like an emotional debt. We either face it or we leverage our children with it.”

- Terry Real

Here’s What You’ll Receive Inside the Love, Trauma, and Healing Program:

#1) Five LIVE 2-Hour Interactive Trainings with Terry Real & Thomas Hubl

[Over 10+ Hours of LIVE Teachings]

You will be joining Thomas and Terry on 5 LIVE 2-Hour sessions that will include a core teaching and question and answer sessions from the audience. You can join us live or download the recording later if you can not make the time. You will learn concepts, frameworks, techniques, practical exercises, and case studies that can guide your way.

#2) Instant Access to the 2020 course  Evolutionary Relationships: Creating Mystical Partnerships for Healing & Waking Up

[Over 12+ Hours of Instant Downloadable Teachings]

This 8-session course includes over 12 hours of trainings and teachings with Thomas and Terry on Evolutionary Relationships. You will receive the complete video and audio formats plus transcripts, which are yours to keep.

#3) Access to a Private Facebook Group for Connection and Discussion

Our Private Facebook group will connect you with a worldwide community of like-minded people to discuss the course material, share experiences, as well as give and receive support. 

#4) Private Course Portal with Downloadable Access to Video, Audio, Transcripts, and Drawings from Every Course Session

Every live training will be recorded and available in video and audio formats so you’ll be able to download and own all the content. So if you want to watch the trainings over and over or you miss one of the live trainings, you’ll be able to watch at your leisure.

PLUS You’ll Receive these 2
Special Training Bonuses

Bonus #1

The Healing Power of Presence
with Thomas Hubl

In this video training, Thomas covers the Five Principles of Conscious Healing: Presence, Attunement, Subtle Capacity, Coherence, and Access to Higher Intelligence.

Bonus #2

Attachment in Couples Therapy – Presence, Attunement, Resonance, and Trust with Dan Siegel, Terry Real, and Juliane Taylor Shore

In this training, Terry Real and Juliane Taylor Shore speak with Dan Siegel about the four inner mental experiences that attunement enables an individual to resonate with. Dan also outlines how the state of receptivity emerges with trust.


Meet Your Teachers

Thomas Hübl

Terry Real

Thomas Hübl is a renowned teacher, author, and international facilitator whose lifelong work integrates the core insights of the great wisdom traditions and mysticism with the discoveries of science. Since the early 2000s, he has been leading large-scale events and courses that focus on the healing and integration of trauma. Participants come from around the world, ranging from members of the public to faculty and staff at Harvard Medical School.

His non-profit organization, The Pocket Project, works to support the healing of collective trauma throughout the world. He is the author of Healing Collective Trauma: A Process for Integrating Our Intergenerational and Cultural Wounds, which outlines his methodology called the Collective Trauma Integration Process as a safe framework for guiding groups through collective trauma.

Terry Real is the bestselling author of I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression, the straight-talking How Can I Get Through to You? Reconnecting Men and Women, and most recently The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Make Love Work. Terry knows how to lead couples on a step-by-step journey to greater intimacy—and greater personal fulfillment.

He founded the Relational Life Institute, offering workshops for couples, individuals, and parents as well as a professional training program for clinicians.

Terry’s work, with its rigorous commonsense approach, speaks to both men and women. A proponent of “full-throttle marriage,” Terry has been called “the most innovative voice in thinking about and treating men and their relationships in the world today.”

Course Schedule

Join Thomas and Terry for LIVE online video sessions. The sessions will be recorded and available on the course website afterward. 

All sessions are 2 hours long:
9-11am Los Angeles / 12-2pm New York / 6-8p Berlin
Click here for the time in your area.

All sessions will be recorded and posted to the private course portal with downloadable access to video, audio, transcripts, and drawings.

Live Course Sessions

Session 1:

Thursday April 15th, 2021

Session 2:

Thursday, April 29th, 2021

Session 3:

Thursday, May 13th, 2021

Session 4:

Monday, May 24th, 2021

Session 5:

Thursday, June 10th, 2021

Here's what you’ll receive inside the program:

1. 5 LIVE two-hour online sessions with Terry Real and Thomas Hübl that include Question & Answer Sessions [10+hours]

2. Instant Access to Evolutionary Relationships: Creating Mystical Partnerships for Healing & Waking Up Course [12+hours and 7 Sessions]

3. Private Membership Group and Community

4. Private Course Portal with Downloadable Access to Video, Audio, Transcripts, and Drawings from Every Course Session

PLUS the following Special Bonuses:

1. The Healing Power of Presence Video Training with Thomas Hubl

2. Attachment in Couple's Therapy - Presence, Attunement, Resonance, and Trust with Terry Real, Juliane Taylor Shore, and Dan Siegel

Registration is now closed.

Contact our support team with any questions.

Here’s What People Are Saying

Thomas and Terry together are profound resources for relationship healing on so many levels. My husband and I spent hours in conversation each week around the course material, which laid a firm foundation and much broader perspective for exploring our difficult relationship issues. We will return to the principles over and over as we work to evolve ourselves and our marriage.

Marilyn S.

I never liked or understood the word “trauma” as it had been used by so many erroneously. This course helped me understand that although I had never been physically abused in childhood, I had experienced neglect, causing me to feel alone and unsafe.I am so grateful to have been a part of the course – I had a huge breakthrough with memories surfacing that had been long forgotten and stored in the unconscious. 

Sara R.

I appreciated how Terry and Thomas integrated their respective approaches to relational work. I was moved by their compassion and focus with online participants. It was beautiful to experience. As a relational therapist I feel more confident and clear about my own skills as I begin to learn and integrate their generous wisdom.

Martha Y.

Studying with Thomas has really magnified every part of the way that I work with people. It’s helped me to be a living, relational intelligence with people’s healing process or growth process.

Ryan M.

Osteopath and Somatic Coach, USA

I valued the discoveries I made and that I can integrate in my work. I valued the way Thomas can introduce complex or abstract things and make them simple and always with both feet on the ground without any judgement or agendas.

Annemarie V.

Consultant and Coach, The Netherlands

I found myself deeply moved and changed by participating in all these sessions all of which served to elicit a deeper connection with myself as well as with others. I find my capacity to sense and feel others has been greatly enhanced. 

Sonia, P.

Facilitator, Zimbabwe

Out of all the conferences and webinars I have attended, Terry provides practical information that can be used immediately.  He comes across as highly experienced, however, very human and approachable.  This is considerable as I have never met him in person.  I am very grateful for his timely topics and the many opportunities to learn the RLT model.

Roseann

My work with Terry has greatly enriched me as a therapist. I’ve been in practice over 35 years and trained with many exceptional therapists.

Training with Terry has pulled all this together and enabled my interventions to be more elegant and to the point, resulting in my client work being more focused and penetrating without sacrificing empathy or compassion

Yana Hoffman

Therapist, Eden Mills, Canada

My experiences in trainings with Terry Real have helped me to access and strengthen my own voice in approaching very difficult couple situations. His openness and generosity in sharing of himself is remarkable. As a very experienced clinician, I highly recommend his work.

Lorraine R. Tempel

Ph.D., L.C.S.W.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I need to be in a relationship for this course to be helpful? And if so, does my partner need to do this course with me?

There are no relationship requirements for participation in this course! The teachings and explorations are applicable whether you are single or in any form of an intimate relationship. You may choose to do the course by yourself or with a partner, and either way will learn vital new tools to apply in your relationships.

 

My partner and I want to take the course - how do we both register?

If you plan to take the course with your partner, both are required to register. A couples discount is available; please contact us for more information.

Will I be able to ask questions during the program and is it interactive?

YES! You are encouraged to participate in the sessions. Our aim is to make this as interactive and personal as possible….to be in relationship with you and the entire group.

All sessions will be live and you’ll have opportunities to ask questions (time permitting). You can also post questions in our private Facebook Community in advance and our team pick the cases and topics that seem the most relevant to help the entire group.

What time are the live sessions?

All sessions with Terry Real & Thomas Hübl are 9-11am Los Angeles / 12-2pm New York / 6-8p Berlin. These sessions are each 2 hours in length. For Session 1 on April 15th see this time zone converter. Please schedule accordingly. 

What if I miss a session or have limited time?

We know that there will be times that you can’t join us live, so all of the sessions will be recorded and you’ll be able to download them from the Private Course Portal. This will also be useful for some sessions that you will want to listen to more than once.

In addition to viewing/listening to the recordings online, you can download an audio recording, video recording and transcript from each session, in order to learn in a format that suits you best and is at your convenience. All recordings are yours to keep after the course ends.

Is this course approved for Continuing Education Credits?

This course is not approved for CEUs.

What is your money-back guarantee?

We are confident you’ll be happy with the Love, Trauma, and Healing course. However, if you are not 100% satisfied with your purchase, simply contact us by Tuesday, April 27, 2021 and we’ll give you a full refund, no questions asked. You must make this request on or before Tuesday, April 27, 2021. No refunds will be granted after that date. 

Are scholarships available for this course?

A limited number of partial scholarships are available for those with financial need. Contact us for information.

How can I get support?

If you have additional questions you can contact us here.

If I have taken courses from Thomas or Terry, will this be new material and will it be different?

This Love, Trauma, and Healing course is a new collaboration between Thomas and Terry. The sessions will be held live and include real-time process work with individuals and couples. This new course also includes all of the material from the 2020 Evolutionary Relationships course – it’s essentially two courses in one! You can download the material to access at your convenience for years to come.

Alumni of the 2020 Evolutionary Relationships course receive a special discount, contact us here.

Will this course be offered again?

Currently, our plan is to only offer this course live, and the special bundle of two courses for one is available for a limited time. This course is a unique live experience and if you are interested we would encourage you to join us at this time.

A Deeper Look at the Included Bonus Training:

Evolutionary Relationships

Creating Mystical Partnerships for Healing and Waking Up

You will receive over 14 hours inside the recent training recorded in 2020 by Thomas Hübl and Terry Real.

Get Instant Access to the Following Modules:

SESSION 1:

Waking Up Through Relationships

SESSION 2:

Working through Trauma & Moving through Blockages

SESSION 3:

Multi-generational Healing with Your Partner

SESSION 4:

The Evolutionary Relationship Tool Kit

SESSION 5:

Bringing Ritual into Your Relationships

SESSION 6:

Eros and Embodiment in Relationship

SESSION 7:

The Mystical
Marriage

Here's what you’ll receive inside the program:

1. 5 LIVE two-hour online sessions with Terry Real and Thomas Hübl that include Question & Answer Sessions [10+hours]

2. Instant Access to Evolutionary Relationships: Creating Mystical Partnerships for Healing & Waking Up Course [12+hours and 7 Sessions]

3. Private Membership Group and Community

4. Private Course Portal with Downloadable Access to Video, Audio, Transcripts, and Drawings from Every Course Session

PLUS the following Special Bonuses:

1. The Healing Power of Presence Video Training with Thomas Hubl

2. Attachment in Couple's Therapy - Presence, Attunement, Resonance, and Trust with Terry Real, Juliane Taylor Shore, and Dan Siegel

Registration is now closed.

Contact our support team with any questions.

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